How To Get Your Deepest Desires.

Have you ever wanted something so badly that it was all you could eat, breathe and sleep? It’s that very thing you desire more than anything else in this world.

For some it’s the desire for money and success, for others it’s the desire to find that special someone or to have their own children. It could even be to win a sporting competition or achieve a particular career, and yet, no matter how hard you try the desired outcome always seems to evade you.

You watch as someone else obtains that promotion at work, wins the trophy, or steals someone’s heart away from you. You’re left feeling rejected, defeated and a deep sense of hopelessness. Once you feel this on a deep level, you start to find your belief system comes to expect this sense of failure: before you know it, your dreams seem further out of reach than ever before. After experiencing this in many different ways, I’ve come to one very important realisation…


 When we believe we are not worthy of something our fear brings out the compulsion to try and control the situation, and the desired outcome. When we do this we become out of alignment with our hearts truest desires. Energetically our desperation (fear) creates a vibrational discord that pushes our desires away from, instead of towards us. We cannot obtain that which our subconscious mind feels we are not worthy of.

In order to come back into alignment, we must remember that we cannot control our desired outcome, nor should we try to! All we need to do is SHOW UP, and by that I mean participate.

If you want to win the trophy, then participate in the training necessary, and of course the competition itself. If you want that promotion at work, then participate in every work activity or training that can take you there. If you want that special person to share your life with, then participate in everything you are invited to.

Achievement of any kind is a two-way effort: your part is to simply SHOW UP, participate, and let go of the desired outcome. The second part is up to the Universe; who’s role is to provide the desired outcome. More often than not this comes in unexpected ways that always turn out better than we ever could have imagined for ourselves.

Our little minds cannot possibly fathom all of the variables that the Universe takes into consideration when granting our desires, and only problems (resistance) occur when we try to understand that which is far greater than our minds can possibly conceive.

So the next time you find yourself clinging – trying to control a desired outcome, just remember: ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS SHOW UP AND THE UNIVERSE WILL TAKE CARE OF THE REST!  

Thanks for taking the time to read. Would love to hear your thoughts on the matter in the comments section!

— Stacey 

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